When you look in the mirror, who is it you see? Not who others see, but who do you see? Do you see someone you can depend on, trust, respect, even admire?

Sometimes the most important impact we can make is by our model of good character and integrity.

This month’s Hometown Hero, Michael Berry, says he lives his life so he can face himself each day with a clear conscious. He believes living with the least possible regrets means treating others with integrity. When he hasn’t met his standards, he owns up and works to make amends.

Berry is an Eagle Scout — the highest rank that can be earned by a Scout — and volunteers in his church, community, and school, and earned his own way to Mexico to help needy families.

Dennis Hunter, the director of the Career Center at South Whidbey High School, enthusiastically remarks, “Michael raises the benchmark on exemplifying values of character and integrity. He’s consistent day-in and day-out positive influence and humor throughout his daily life, is a outstanding model for everyone.”

Principal Mike Johnson remembers when Berry injured himself during a football game. His injuries were permanent and he could no longer play football or participate on the wrestling team. Johnson said this did not mean his commitment to the teams was over.

“Mike continued helping both the wrestling and football teams. He took stats, ran balls, and watched and encouraged the teams. Mike also took up a non-contact sport, tennis, and did well.”

Chris Long, another Eagle Scout and wrestler who is also a senior at the high school, said in spite of his own accomplishments, he still looks up to Berry.

“Michael has always been a role model for me,” he said. “I admire how he continued helping in these sports, even though he couldn’t play himself.”

Long also lauds Berry for his scouting skills.

“He is a master of outdoor skills, and together we work like a well oiled machine.”

Lowering his head, taking in a slow breath Berry says, “I’ve done a lot of things I’m not proud of.”

“When I was younger I had stolen some things. And in intermediate school I used to pick fights with other kids at school. Through counseling I learned to deal with my feelings appropriately.”

He says to face himself in the mirror again, he’s had to go to each person involved to try to make it right.

Berry says he doesn’t compare himself to others.

“I think that’s when we can get in trouble, either we’ll feel we don’t have as much as others, or can get too content with our status quo,” he said. “If people just strive to get by in life, they’ll never find their potential. Everyone has abilities, if we just apply ourselves.”

Last summer, Berry’s faith in people was shaken when his parents went through some marital trouble.

“I went to God in prayer, and through a summer camp decided I would become a youth pastor,” he said. “I want to help other young people make good choices even when life is difficult.”

Berry refers to all adults as “mister” or “missus.” He sits up straight, and looks directly into the eyes of people with whom he is having a conversation. His eyes wander only when he’s think of an answer to a question. He speaks confidently, yet humbly about what he believes.

“I believe we must forgive everyone, but I have to admit, there are people that I have not forgiven,” he said. “I hope I get to that point, but to be honest I’m not ready.”

He says staying in Scouts and church can seem like a sacrifice and not very cool or fun. However, for him, both offer wisdom that can bring you a fulfilling life.

Before he makes decisions, Berry tries to remember to ask himself, “How will this effect me tomorrow, or 10 years from now?”

“For instance drinking is a very very short term high. It won’t do anything positive for you tomorrow or the future. But then, studying for a test or learning a new skill just might do some good.”

Kevin Craig, the manager of Lakeside Bible Camp in Clinton, still talks about Michael, one of his camp employees. He particularly remembers Berry’s dedication to his work in the camp cafeteria, as well as his spiritual faith.

“He was always on time, worked diligently, and was friendly and helpful with the campers,” he said. “He has become a leader among the staff and a good assistant cook.

“I have no doubt this Eagle Scout will return after college to inspire, lead and give more to others.”

Berry didn’t earn the rank of Eagle Scout for the accolades, or honor. He wanted to better himself and be a model for others. He said he believes in all of the Eagle Scout values, and wants to uphold them for a lifetime.

“Some measure their success with their assets, job, or health,” he said. “I believe success is if you respect the way, you’re living. For me as long as I do my best to follow God’s will and values, and treat people right, I will be successful in the important things in life.”

Berry’s daily positive influence, can be attributed to his moral and spiritual beliefs, said Damian Green, a Farmers Insurance agent, and volunteer.

“He has earned a reputation equivalent to his excellent character, a reputation that he will carry throughout his life.”

What Michael’s friends are saying about him

“He has faced success, and he has faced adversity, and has always faced them with courage, discipline and a ‘Yes I can’ attitude that has spurred him on. Whenever you see a person like that, you have to wonder about the engine that drives that personality or attitude. For Michael, it’s that he had made his relationship with God a priority. In many ways he has become a hero by bucking the system that leads to wrong decisions, such as the use of substances and actions that destroy life rather than enhance it.”
— Bob Welch, pastor of CMA church

“Mike Berry was the first student hired to place community messages on our Freeland reader board. He set his standards of quality workmanship and reliability. And passed them on to his successors. His trustworthiness has benefited all of South Whidbey.”
— G. Kenneth O’Mhuan, attorney

“Mike is a willing, dependable and a skillful volunteer in our children’s ministry. This past year has been a challenging one for Mike. He had family stress that would test anyone’s faith. Yet through it all he has remained an example to all of us. He has placed his faith in Jesus who has walked with him up every high mountain, and through every low valley.”
— John Groce, associate pastor, CMA church

“Michael is motivated in seeing others around him succeed. He is the most unselfish person we know. He’s always honest, demonstrates integrity, and has a magnetic personality.” Scott laughs and adds, “Michael also TP’s houses very well.”
— Scott and KK Iversen, volunteer youth leaders

“He always shows respect for elders. Michael shows high moral values, always honest and trustworthy. He constantly works to better himself. He is open with his affection, and is a wonderful loving grandson.”
— Sally Berry, his grandmother

“Michael Berry has been a role model for me, his love for the Lord really has kept me in line. His love for others is present, and God is present in everything he does.”
— Ben Simmons, South Whidbey High School junior

“He believes in the Boy Scout oath and lives it to the fullest. He spends many free hours assisting neighbors and friends that may need his help; he is an avid Christian. Michael has taught us as his grandparents to think of others around us that might be in need … he is constantly thinking of others before thinking of himself.”
— Bob Baumgartner, his grandfather

“He demonstrates his values by his walk, and making others feel good. Others can learn from him how important it is to be kind, considerate, courteous and responsible. He has a strong faith, and sense of humor too.”
— High school coach Jim Leierer

“By the time students are seniors you look and hope for certain qualities in young men. Indication of maturity such as integrity, dependability, perseverance and responsibility are qualities I look for. Many of our young people have some of these qualities. Michael has them all and they are obvious. Michael is one of our best and we in this community should be rightfully proud of him.”
— Tom Kramer, high school teacher

“I’ve known Mike since we were little. I can still see his wide smile at the pre-school Halloween party as he walked around in his pirate outfit. He was just as friendly and easy going back then as he is now. No matter what kind of day he is having. Mike makes sure the rest of the school starts off their day right (on the all-school announcements) with his “Good morning South Whidbey High School.” His focus and motivation are very refreshing characteristics.”
— Julie Gabelein, high school senior

“Michael Berry is one of those guys who always knows how to cheer me up when I’m having a bad day. I’m so lucky to have him as a friend and I know that if I ever needed him he would always be there for me. Michael is always there with a smile on his face and an encouraging word. He’s truly a genuine person who cares about others and has always had an impact on the people around him.”
— Elise Spencer, high school senior